Ramadhan is coming to an end and we’re all here together in Kuala Lumpur now. That’s the part I really like. Being together as a family and spending time together. Hubby has arrived to join us and in a couple of days we will celebrate Eid al Fitr together.

This year I decided to spend the first half of Ramadhan fasting in Kuwait and the second half in Malaysia. Last year I fasted three weeks in Kuwait. As usual, it always feels a bit weird fasting in KL at first. I had forgotten how different Ramadhan was in Kuwait compared to KL.

Everything changes in Kuwait in Ramadhan, from work hours to shopping times and restaurant timings. During the first 20 days, work hours are shortened by law to only 6 hours per day. Most companies including hubby’s comply, so he starts work an hour later at 9:30am and finishes an hour earlier at 4:30pm. Women get even shorter working hours so they go home at 3:30pm! And now, in the last 10 days of Ramadhan, it gets shortened even more – work starts at 10:30am and everybody gets to go home at 3:30pm!

A Kuwiati buying grapes at a market in Kuwait City

Shopping times vary but generally all of them practice split timings in Ramadhan, opening around 10am and remaining open till 3pm or 4pm. Then they close for the afternoon and reopen again at 8pm after iftaar. They finally close for the day anytime between 11:30pm and 1am! Mornings are a good time to go shopping because the stores are really empty. Especially now in the summer heat, people prefer to go out in the evenings because it is a little cooler.

I always wondered how the staff of stores feel about the Ramadhan timings which obviously means longer hours for them. A guy I asked at H & M said that he was happy with it because it meant lots more money for Eid. One day a couple of weeks ago, I was at Zara and I spoke with one of the girls there and she told me that she had finished work at 7am that morning because the store had stayed open for a Sheikh who brought his wife and children and later, all the maids, cooks and drivers, to do their Eid shopping!

By law also, all restaurants including fast food and takeaway places as well as cafes and cafeterias are closed during the day. It is forbidden to be seen eating, drinking or smoking, even chewing gum, in public in Ramadhan. And this applies to everyone and not just Muslims. Its quite a challenge for expats who have just moved to Kuwait, but friends of mine pretty much get used to it after their first Ramadhan. Many join in the Ramadhan celebrations going out for iftaar or accepting invitations for ghabka. Restaurants usually open for iftaar and many stay open till 2am or later for suhoor, the morning meal.

Life is really upside down in Ramadhan.

Day and night

Many people stay out taking advantage of the late shopping hours. In all the years we have lived in Kuwait, we hardly go out in the evenings after iftaar because the traffic is horrendous. Everyone, it seems, heads out after iftaar. Once or twice in the whole month we go out for an iftaar buffet – the best in Kuwait, at the Sheraton Hotel. Last Ramadhan we tried one at the Burj al Hamam and although we always enjoys enjoyed our Friday lunches there, we didn’t enjoy our iftaar there – it was packed and a little too crowded for us. The Sheraton iftaar buffet is still the best. For one thing, even though we go there once a year, one of the senior waiters there, Ibrahim, always remembers us and treats us like royalty!

In contrast, there are no changes to shopping and restaurant timings during Ramadhan in KL. Everything is pretty normal – the restaurants are full during breakfast and lunch. The coffee shops are full everywhere and people eat, drink and smoke like any other day. To me, other than the fact that I’m fasting while I’m out during the day, it’s really very much the same here as any other time of the year.

It’s only when I hear the Raya songs (timeless and popular songs associated with Eid in Malaysia) blaring in every shopping mall and supermarket in KL that I’m reminded that it’s Ramadhan. And the Ramadhan bazaars of course. Which we don’t find in Kuwait. In multicultural Malaysia, everyone loves the Ramadhan bazaars because it only happens this time of the year and they’re crowded from the moment they open for business around 4pm all the way up to minutes just before iftaar.

The crowd at a typical Bazaar Ramadhan in Malaysia

I remember how my late father loved visiting the bazaars for all kinds of traditional food for breaking the fast. He would go early, as soon as they opened, to avoid the crowd and always came home with a bit of everything. If mum was making something special that day she’d be sure to tell him so he wouldn’t go that day.

All kinds of food at the Bazaar Ramadhan

Traffic in Ramadhan is just as horrendous here in KL as it is in Kuwait but generally only before iftaar. I think because of the short shopping times left after iftaar, most people who want to shop in the evening would break their fast in some restaurant in a mall then continue their shopping immediately after. So it can get quite crazy trying to get a table in any restaurant for iftaar. You have to be in the mall a couple of hours before iftaar, go to the restaurant to book a table, place your order, go shopping and come back fifteen minutes before iftaar.

Oh, and I simply, totally dislike going to any of the iftaar buffets in KL because of the inconsiderate behaviour of some who want to indulge in the festive occasion but don’t want to participate in the ritual of breaking fast. Sadly, they get their food before everyone else is ready to do so and start eating when they want to. When its time to break fast and you try to get your food, it’s a big mess and it feels like you’re eating leftovers. Ever since a long time ago, I have wished that hotel and restaurant management would do something about this, but things have not changed.

So yes, the Ramadhan atmosphere is different depending on where I’m spending it because of cultural differences. But the best part of the month every year for me is being together as a family.

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Location:Jalan Sri Hartamas 17,Kuala Lumpur,Malaysia

Dining out is one of the two things hot on the list of every expatriate in Kuwait. And, in case you didn’t know, the other is shopping! Smile

If you love food and eating, dining out in Kuwait is very easy to enjoy since there are many good restaurants around. Sadly, there is NO Malaysian restaurant! The “Malaysian Char Kuey Teow with Beef” at the Noodle Factory in the Avenues Mall is as close as you’ll get to anything Malaysian around here. If you’re really desperate.

So it must have been a Godsend for many, Malaysians and non-Malaysians-who-love-Malaysian-food alike, when the Malaysian Embassy in Kuwait, in collaboration with the Association of Malaysian Ladies of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs (PERWAKILAN) of Kuwait organised and held the inaugural Malaysian Food Bazaar at the grounds of the Malaysian Embassy in Kuwait recently.

The striking banner at the gates of the Malaysian Embassy

I understood that it had taken many weeks of planning and organising by the Embassy and PERWAKILAN members. Although the event was only four hours – from 12 noon to 4pm on a Saturday afternoon it isn’t hard to imagine the amount of work involved in organising any food-sale event. Deciding what to sell, who’s going to prepare what and when to prepare what are things that are easily done at a meeting table but the real work has to be in the preparation of the ingredients, marinades, sauces and gravies. Many of the dishes also involve condiments and accompaniments like cucumber, onions, bean sprouts, carrots, cabbage etc and these need to be cleaned, cubed, sliced, julienned etc.

Many signature dishes that make up our exotic Malaysian cuisine had been planned for sale that day – many, like nasi lemak, nasi kerabu, nasi dagang, mee rebus, mee soto, asam laksa, would be prepared at home in the private kitchens of Malaysians and brought to the Bazaar to be served hot when purchased. Others like satay, mee goreng, and kuey teow goreng must be cooked on-site. So there was a lot of preparation to do.

Nasi lemak with all its condiments

The Malaysian Ambassador’s wife and President of PERWAKILAN Kuwait, H.E. Datin Azlinda Rosli spearheaded the preparation work for what was always the most popular Malaysian signature dish – satay. All in all, 20 kilograms of beef and 40 kilograms of chicken breast were purchased to make the 2000 sticks of satay. There was a lot of work involved in making satay the traditional way. The meat had to be sliced, then marinated overnight before painstakingly skewered into individual bamboo sticks. The ingredients for the marinade and the traditional satay sauce – a piquant peanut-based sauce – also required tedious preparation.

How else to accomplish this and a lot more except in the true Malaysian spirit of gotong royong – for which I have to say there is no direct translation into English.

Gotong royong (or sometimes gotong-royong) is a phrase commonly used in Malaysia which I would translate to mean “voluntarily working together on a task or tasks to accomplish a specific goal”. I’ve heard this phrase gotong royong used all my life since my childhood days and no one ever translated it for me! Throughout my adult life, the phrase always conjured a picture of people – men, women, children – of all races, from all walks of life doing something together – at an appointed time, in an appointed place – for a specific reason, purpose or goal.

All set to prepare the satay

Gotong royong: Many hands make light work

Busy travelling in and out of Kuwait since December 2011, I did not make it to join as a member of the association but I was glad when my BFF, Zaharah did the right thing and volunteered me to help out with some of the preparation work at the Embassy a couple of days before the event. So there we were in the Embassy kitchen (I didn’t count how many there were of us), skewering the marinated beef and chicken, then weighing, counting, packing and freezing the satay sticks ready for the traditional grilling over a charcoal fire on Bazaar day.

More chicken was purchased then sliced and marinated that day ready for skewering the next day. The satay sauce was also cooked that day.

Zaharah and I had been assigned by Datin Azlinda to man the satay stall and I had promised to come bright and early on Bazaar day to prepare the satay condiments – slices of cucumbers, and cubes of onions and compressed rice. I was intent on being at the Embassy by 8am as Datin recommended and virtually crept out of our apartment so hubby could sleep in a little extra on his day off! LOL

The Embassy grounds were abuzz as we got closer and closer to the time the Food Bazaar would start. Colourful banners in the colours of the Malaysian flag decorated the covered area where most of the stalls were and the various food stalls looked very attractive with the batik fabrics used as table covers and the creative presentation of the various food.

Including our satay stall’s…ahem!

Our satay presentation

We were all given bright red aprons with the Bazaar logo and the words “ Malaysian Food Bazaar” to wear. At around12 noon, I caught our Ambassador, H.E. Dato’ Adnan Othman, himself donning an apron like his wife and the rest of us, kicking off the Bazaar buying his coupons.

 Here we go! No coupons, no food!

The DJ started playing some popular Malaysian music and the Bazaar had begun. Some Ambassadors from various embassies were the first to arrive with their family and friends. I recognised several faces of Ambassadors’ wives from the International Women’s Group and it was great to see them supporting the Bazaar. Many of the 600 or so guests that came that day had been to Malaysia before on holiday or business, and others had tasted Malaysian food elsewhere or in Kuwait.

At least where satay was concerned, we found it needed little introduction! The queue seemed endless and the satay team had little respite serving its customers.

The crowd at the Bazaar

The satay was cooked “live” at the satay grill manned by six  hardy Malaysians right next to us. They did really well to keep the satay coming to make sure we never ran out of supply. Needless to say, the satay station attracted many spectators curious to see where the smoke and the unfamiliar aroma of a satay barbeque was coming from!

The Satay Brigade

Freshly grilled satay

It was busy everywhere. The rice station, noodles, drinks, munchies, cookies and Malaysian kuih muih (sweets and desserts) had their share of busy-ness.

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Colourful Malaysian sweets and savoury curry puffs

Mee Rebus, Soto and Asam Laksa at the noodles station

Which wasn’t a surprise. Malaysian food is so varied and whether for the familiar or adventurous, you can’t have just one dish and say you’ve eaten Malaysian cuisine! No way. You’d have had  to taste a bit of everything.

Well, like many other Malaysians who were there that day, I could have eaten everything – satay, char kuey teow, asam laksa, keropok lekor, rojak buah….mmmm yumm yumm..and I wanted to! No diets for me today, I thought!

Unfortunately it wasn’t to be. We were too busy taking care of business. As soon as I had a moment, I sneaked off to the noodles station to grab some asam laksa – alas, like many other dishes that day, they were sold out! Good for the bazaar but not good for me LOL

Hubby enjoyed himself sampling the dishes he loved (including the satay of course) and catching up with friends, new and old. And I really enjoyed being the satay seller! And the satay was really so good that one customer asked us, AND he was very serious: “Can you tell me, please, where is your restaurant in Kuwait?” LOL

This satay is the bestest!

It was a great day, this inaugural charity event at the Malaysian Embassy grounds. H.E. the Ambassador and his wife were very pleased with the success of the Bazaar, as were I think all the Association’s members, volunteers and spouses, and all Malaysians in Kuwait.

There’s talk that the Malaysian Food Bazaar will be an annual event from now on and next year, it will be held in the month of February to take advantage of the cooler weather and to partake in Kuwait’s annual Hala February festival.

So food, glorious Malaysian food, we look forward to the annual event, and next year, I’ll be sure to sneak away early during the Bazaar to grab my goodies!

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I actually forgot about Earth Hour this year. I’m not supposed to but I did. I only realised one hour before, so thankfully I could still do my bit.

I don’t know how many of us go around thinking, “I’m only one person. How could me switching off my lights for one hour possibly have any kind of impact on global warming?” Probably a lot of people.

Don’t get confused, Earth Hour DOES NOT aim at conserving power – the goal of Earth Hour is to raise awareness about the need to take action on climate change. The event was conceived by World Wide Fund for Nature (WWF) and The Sydney Morning Herald, and first took place in 2007, when 2.2 million residents of Sydney participated by turning off all non-essential lights. Following Sydney’s lead, many other cities around the world adopted the event in 2008. Today, Earth Hour is a worldwide event organized by the WWF and is held on the last Saturday of March annually

My son, Danial, is really good at this. I remember I was in Malaysia in March 2009 and we were going to have pasta for dinner at home when he reminded me, “Hey Mum, by the way, its Earth Hour tonight!”

We did it “by the book” – not only did we eat by candlelight, we cooked by candlelight!

Cooking during Earth Hour

At 8:30 pm sharp that night, the skyline changed. The view from our balcony was different from the usual view. The Petronas Twin Towers were dark and so was the KL Tower. Many other buildings had also switched off their lights.

It was an unfamiliar skyline.

Last year we were in Kuwait during Earth Hour. We happened to be out that night relaxing on the terrace with a drink at the Movenpick Hotel nearby in Al-Bidaa. Five minutes before 8:30pm, we saw some hotel staff placing some oil lamps on a bamboo stalk on the beach around where we were sitting and at Earth Hour all the non-essential hotel lights went off. There were already tea lamps on all the tables where we were so it was really cosy on the terrace. I have to say I was quite surprised at the effort.

So this year, we were at home and I told hubby,”In one hour we’ll switch off all non-essential lights in our apartment, OK?” And he said OK. I looked outside and saw that the terrace and garage lights were on, of course. The building haris (janitor) always turned them on at dusk and off at 10:30pm. Surprisingly, on seeing that, my dear husband opened the front door and went outside to switch them off.

So there we were, commemorating Earth Hour doing our bit for global warming. Unfortunately at 9:10pm, the haris turned the outside lights back on! Oh well…

In the rest of Kuwait this year, the official celebration of this year’s Earth Hour was organised by the “Kuwait Team for Global Warming” group at the Sahara Resort and Golf Club in Subhan. Around the city, more than fifty locations went dark for one hour from 8:30pm to 9:30pm and these included some well-known buildings and landmarks like the spanking new AlHamra Tower, the Avenues Mall, Marina Mall, Kuwait Towers, Liberation Tower, United Tijaria Tower, Souq Sharq etc.

Around the world, hundreds of millions of people, in thousands of cities, at hundreds of landmarks, on all seven continents, switched off their lights for one hour to display a universal commitment to protect the one thing that unites us all — the planet.

Lets hope this action sends a powerful message for action on climate change and a commitment to go beyond the hour to commit to lasting action for the planet.

Believe it or not, things can change when people come together for a common cause.

So this was the last day of my month at home in Malaysia.

It flew by so fast I couldn’t believe it was already time to go back to Kuwait. I told my son Danial that I didn’t mind staying another two weeks. It seemed I never had enough time whenever I went back home.

I was busy everyday. My days were so tight that I’d try and fit in as much as I could everyday. I spent the greater part of every day at my mum’s and fit in errands, home improvement, friends and fire-fighting around my time at Mum’s. I spent most evenings with Danial. Some days I’d meet a girlfriend early in the morning for breakfast then run an errand then off to Mum’s till almost tea time. And then home to cook dinner. Some days I’d be at Mum’s early in the morning, dash off to meet a friend for lunch then back to Mum’s in the afternoon. And sometimes when Danial had an evening appointment, it was the complete reverse. I’d be at Mum’s all day and in the evening I’d catch up with a girlfriend over dinner.

So while I brought my MacBook home with me, hopeful that during my “free time” I could catch up on all those projects I had, like cleaning up my photo library, catching up on my blogging, preparing for my painting classes back in Kuwait etc, it didn’t happen. All I used my MacBook for was Skyping with hubby. I just did not have any time to do any of those things.

I’ll say it again – I’m always so busy when I go home. One of these days, I really want to go home for a holiday.

So back to today. It’s a nice day at Mum’s. Everyone is here. Three of my brothers and their family came over and everyone is in a good mood. It rained hard and heavy for a while so we all stayed indoors and chatted and what not. After the rain – and I love the fresh smell of the grass – we all went outside and sat around on the terrace. Mum’s nurse wheeled her out to enjoy the fresh air.

Raindrop on a leaf

One of my brothers noticed this drop of rain on a leaf on one of my Mum’s many, many potted plants in and around the terrace. And as soon as he had said, “Hey, look at this…”, everyone scrambled around the little plant, phones in hand and started snapping away. Everyone was very careful not to touch the leaf lest the drop of water trickled away.

Tomorrow I fly back to Kuwait. And despite having been here a month, the picture that will remain most vivid in my mind is this drop of rainwater on a leaf after the rain. I can’t really say why. There’s just a poignancy about it and I don’t really want to get mushy. Lets just agree that it’s a very nice pic taken with my iPhone 4S.

Four years since our Waldorf Tower apartment in Kuala Lumpur had been ready and four years of staying there whenever we were home and finally I felt I had to do something about the morning sun. Actually, I mean something MORE.

Our living room, the study and the two bedrooms all face the morning sun. And we made the big decision of tinting all the windows and the living room door to the balcony – just like you’d do with car windows – with V-Kool! It did cost a little bomb and a half but I think, no regrets at all.

V-Kool installers tinting the living room door

Everything went well except the morning sun where the living room and study were was really intense. From about 8:30am till 11am or so every morning, the sun shone so strong into the living room that I’d be forced to draw the curtains. Which, of course, made the room dark. And when I wasn’t there, Danial would be at work when the morning sun came in and there would be no one to draw the curtains. Of course. Smile

It took its toll. Year after year of the sun coming into our living room damaged my conversation piece, “organic” sofa. It was supposed to be leather and suede – well, at least that’s what the guys at Cellini told me – but who knows. Anyway, the large piece kidney shaped piece had to be thrown out. When I tried to have it fixed at Cellini, they told me I had to reupholster the whole set. They wouldn’t fix only the damaged part. That was so unfair. It would cost me much more than a new set. I was so upset and you know what happens next – that’s the last time I ever buy anything from this store. I asked my maid Siti to ask her husband who worked with the apartment maintenance team to remove it. It didn’t seem to matter at the time what they did with it. I think they used in the staff room.

My "organic" sofa set from Cellini

I kept the other two pieces trying to make the most functional use of it. The round ottoman went nicely in the reception – you sit on it when you want to put your shoes on or you put your stuff on it when you get home Smile. And I put the crescent-shaped one in a corner of the dining area which had looked a little empty. And then I bought a new sofa. I was happy to find an acceptable, inexpensive one for the time being. It was the best I could do in a hurry. It was ok.

Then I thought I’d better solve the sun issue because anything I put there next to the balcony door would get damaged by the morning sun. I seriously considered some weather-proof sunscreen blinds on the balcony which would keep the sun out AND even the rain. I had seen it at a friend’s home in Serene Kiara. I got quotes and would have gone on with it, except for a couple of hitches. One, our balcony was curved and they couldn’t fit it in without encroaching on some of the balcony area, and two – the fantastic management at Waldorf Tower wouldn’t give me permission to do it UNLESS I chose this awful dark brown bamboo blinds! What? I wanted a sunscreen which would let in the sunlight BUT keep out the intensity of the sun and they wanted me to put these awful dark blinds. They said I had to abide by the “house rules” if I wanted to install anything outside the apartment, like the balcony, but I could install any kind of blinds inside the apartment.

So that was that. I had no choice but to call my faithful contractor Lau and asked him to install some roller blinds inside the apartment. It worked. It kept more heat out and my sofa etc had a better chance at a better life!

Before the sunscreen blinds

After the sunscreen blinds
It wasn’t that bad, in fact it was quite practical as it certainly kept out the glare. My curtains seemed dysfunctional there right now but that’s going to be another story. Hubby says when we move back for good we’ll do some renovation and repainting etc and that’s when I’ll change those things.

For now, the sunscreen blinds work for me.

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The view from our apartment this morning was anything but pleasant. It was strange.

No Petronas Twin Towers, a bleak shadow of the KL Tower. Nothing else but a grey shadowy backdrop behind the now majestic new palace of the Malaysian King. Our new neighbours. I thought it was the early morning mist but no, it was just a confirmation that the haze is back!

That means poor air quality and all kinds of effects on your upper respiratory system, eyes and even skin?

There is “good” news though: temperatures are down! 25 to 29 degrees celsius today. You can hardly see the sun. It’s image is obscured by the thick shroud of haze. Its surreal. Certainly the heatwave that greeted me when I arrived on Saturday is gone. Not the humidity though.

So I left the dust and the sandstorms in Kuwait only to be in the thick of the haze in Kuala Lumpur. Oh well.

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Location:Jalan Sri Hartamas 17,Kuala Lumpur,Malaysia

 

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